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Motivation for Change

Posted by Dave on September 17, 2013

I recently watched the documentary “Fat, Sick & Nearly Dead” (Netflix). Although it was somewhat contrived, I liked it alot. The movie follows around 2 very large guys who decide to make a radical change in their lives in order to rid themselves of a very uncomfortable autoimmune disease. Both guys lost well over 100 pounds and got off a huge variety of drugs by the end of the movie.

Over the course of the movie, the main guy interviewed a bunch of people across the US about health (they were generally large people), explaining what his significant change was and trying to “convert” the masses. People continuously agreed that they were incredibly unhealthy, and they were probably going to die in their early 50s (it was kind of frustrating to watch), but had no interest in making any kind of change that would improve their chances at living longer.

The people in the movie reminded me a lot of people I meet whose finances are a mess but have no interest in making things better. These are the people that (frustratingly) complain about how money is “tight” and then spend $100 at the bar a couple of times a month, or buy a bunch of stuff on credit that they don’t need.

I made significant financial changes about 5 years ago after assessing my financial position, looking at my life and seeing what I could do to make it somewhat better than it currently was in my early 20’s. At the time, I was basically spinning my wheels financially. An early retirement plan allowed me to have some sort of target that I could strive towards.

The catalyst for my significant financial change wasn’t as drastic as the guys in the movie (they were dying) – I just needed some direction.

There are tons of blogs out there that I enjoy reading that have stories of people turning their lives around after accumulating significant debt from consumer debt, student loans, or other disasters – there is usually some sort of “bottom” that people hit, where they’re sitting in a dark room (no electricity), have a child on the way (and can’t see how they can feed them), or some other kind of significant crisis.

How did you arrive at your financial plan? Did you have some something major happen that started you down your current financial path?

Comments

3 Responses to “Motivation for Change”
  1. Mike @ UB says:

    Hello Dave. I saw that movie a year ago and it’s a very good movie. Your analogy is spot on.

    A doctor named Esselstyn is a mentor of mine. He says heart disease need be nothing more than a paper tiger. What a bold statement when 50% of US population will die of stroke or heart disease.

    Same with debt. It should be nothing more than a paper tiger, but it’s what the majority suffer everyday.

  2. Chris Istace says:

    I basically just read and explored positive living and anything that constitutes happiness. I stumbled across MMM and then your site….from there I read everyone of your suggested blog sites and absorb it all. I am very well of financially but kept dumping money into STUFF! I read RDPD and Wealthy Barber and have diversified into index funds, maxed employer matching rrsp, using TFSA for short term saving goals, bought a rental property. I just never explored the Frugal side of things. I am now 39 and get upset with myself for all the wasted funds that have gone into living the “dream” but was it??? Thanks for a great site (oh yeah, I’m a local Saskie too)

  3. deegee says:

    I did not realize the impact it would have at the time, but deciding to be childfree at age 20 ended up having the biggest positive impact on my financial path, leading to my early retirement nearly 5 years ago at age 45.

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